My memories of Malta, formed mere weeks ago, are jumbled and not altogether sensible. Like many recollections of past trips, the ones formed here make no sense on paper, but the associations are somehow even more solid for their inexplicability to others. I’ve written before about some nonsensical links I’ll always have from my travels and how they sound absurd to outsiders but are so tightly connected for me. Think Boy George and St. Petersburg, Russia. R.E.M. and the roads of the Peloponnese. Beyond those questionable musical connections, I’ve reminisced about toilets in France, paper products in Tibet, a mysterious white horse in Ecuador, my radio claim to fame in Cape Town, and so many other random but powerful memories.

As our trip to Malta was planned, we only really had four days to explore and get to know our travel mates better. As executed, we were down to three days and two nights, and a chunk of that turned out to be devoted to a couple of World Cup football matches, a sporting event I don’t think I had ever watched – or really wanted to watch – in my life.

The trip started poorly, with our Turkish Airlines flight leaving Houston so late that we missed our connection and had to spend what would have been our first evening of cocktails and dinner with old and new friends at Istanbul airport instead. It could have been worse. IST has been massively updated, and the place was hopping with activity, had a decent airside hotel, and offered an array of fun dinner options. Not Plan A, but we made the best of it.

Arriving early on day two, we met Kelly and J, along with J’s brother and his wife (an amazing bonus couple!), at our quaint little hotel in Valletta. After a quick breakfast, we were off for a walking tour of the capital city, some barely-past-noon beers, and then a boat ride to the Three Cities, which the group had explored a little bit the day before we arrived. Here we were treated not only to toasty yellow stone walls and narrow streets, but to the brotherly banter of J and T. My J is one of two brothers as well, and it was clear even in the first hours of strolling and chatting that we would be a compatible, and often goofy, group!



Kelly and J had spent the previous week in Doha at the World Cup, and like true World Cup fans, their schedule in Malta would include a double header of matches on our second night. Not certain we would be able to sit through both contests, we showed up for match #1, Croatia vs. Brazil, with intentions of politely watching for a short time and having a small amount to eat and drink with the group before venturing out on our own for the evening. In short order, however, we tumbled headlong into the excitement of the match and a cascade of drinks and cheers. Buoyed by the upset results, we hung around for a change in venue and the start of the next quarterfinal, Netherlands vs. Argentina, only to find ourselves once again entranced by a sport we had only ever suffered through as our children played youth soccer for the few years we all could tolerate.

We did manage to see more of Malta than the two bars that hosted our soccer-viewing marathon. In addition to the Three Cities, we ventured out on a bus to Marsaxlokk, a small fishing village south of the capital.



We ambled for hours above, below, and within the burnished stone walls of this fortified little island, and we even had a Michelin-star dinner at Noni in Valletta.



We admired doors and door knockers,








San Francisco-style urban hills,

and a full complement of beguiling streetscapes.


We burned a path in Merchants Street, up to the city gates and Christmas market, back down to the hotel, up to St. John’s cathedral and its Caravaggio paintings, down to Fort St. Elmo, over to Old Bakery Street, and out onto the ramparts on all sides of the city.



We got a solid feel for this unique little island that sits between Sicily and Tunisia, and we had a great time with our friends old and new. It was a joy to be back in Europe again and, in spite of its newness to us, it had the familiar old feel of so many beloved places on the Mediterranean.

We’ll remember the walks and the walls, the cuisine and the scenery, but when we think about Malta in the future, my bet is that we’ll always associate it with soccer (ok – football; see how fast I’m learning?!) and the simple good times of watching those exciting matches with beers and snacks in hand and convivial friends by our side. We even watched the finals when we got home; we’re hooked, and it’s all because we met Kelly and J and T and R in Malta!


I love it!! I had never been into the World Cup until this year. Our neighbors came over for the US/England game at 10:00 am. Glad u had a great time even if it was a shorty. Love all of the street scapes you took. Just beautiful 🤩. Cheers to 2023 and hopefully a meet up in the PNW if u can squeeze it in 💕
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I definitely caught the bug from those guys! I’ve always kind of liked socializing around a sports event (even though I usually didn’t watch much), but this was a whole new level. Happy 2023 to you also, and you KNOW we will do everything we can to hang with you two this year!
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Smooches!!!
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Haha good to see you finally getting into FOOTBALL! I have aleays loved the sport, I remember following my dad to local leagues on sunday afternoons. Fond memories. Anyway Malta looks fantastic! The golden hues of the buildings are just magic! I hope I can visit here one day myself! Cheers and Happy New Year to you! X
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I sure hope you saw that Croatia game (I remember you are Australian-Croatian or vice versa!). I was pulling for them. The buttery color of those walls was incredible, I agree … hope you can go see them yourself someday. Happy New Year!
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Lol of course I did, I watched all their games! 3am wake-up’s to watch them! It was an exhausting World Cup! Lol
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Malta looks so beautiful! I love the narrow pathways… it looks like a good cardio workout with all those steps! I remember watching my first World Cup game while we were in Mexico. The excitement was infectious… so much more fun than it would have been to watch it in the U.S.
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I do think being in a football-obsessed country helps! Speaking of Mexico fans … my husband does much of his work in Mexico, and he said that when the World Cup starts, the business world pretty much grinds to a halt for weeks! Yes, Malta was quite lovely with all that soft stone, the sea, the narrow streets, and a brilliant mix of cultures.
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Happy New Year, Lex! Malta has been on my wish list for a long time and I’m glad you and J got to explore quite a bit of it despite the limited time there and that missed connection in Istanbul. A similar thing happened to Bama and I when we went to Seoul for a short trip in 2018 – a great storm over Jakarta forced the diversion of the incoming flight from Korea to Singapore, and it was delayed until midday the next day.
What did you think of Maltese cuisine? I’ve never had the chance to try it and wonder if it reminded you of Greek or Italian food. I so love the warmth of those yellow stone walls in the soft afternoon light. Being able to walk everywhere and go up and down Valletta’s ramparts must have been a welcome change from the urban sprawl of Houston.
I smiled when I read that Kelly and J got you both hooked on the World Cup. My family (especially my dad and sister) closely followed the 2002 edition in Korea and Japan – for once it was in almost the same time zone as us! We were rooting for South Korea and were so thrilled they made it to the semifinals.
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Happy New Year to you, James! It’s interesting about the food and the culture … I expected a mix of Italian and northern African cuisine (as well as more of a religious and cultural mix), but despite the linguistic and historic connections to the Arab world, Malta mostly felt very Italian, and we learned that it is now very Catholic. The warm walls were one of everyone’s favorite features, and from a visual standpoint, the highlight of the visit for me. The whole football theme was a big surprise, but it really added so much fun!
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Now I start to think that we both have a similar way of processing what our eyes see. Our brains make musical connections between what’s in front of us with something recalled from our memories, and this might seem odd for some. There were places I went to where my brain automatically played a soundtrack from a movie I had watched long before the trip.
For some reason, I have always been intrigued by Malta: its location, its history, the language, and more recently… the food. It’s great that you were able to make the most of this short trip despite the initial hiccup.
I used to be a huge football fan. But I think I haven’t really watched any football match since 2004 — the long duration and the fact that it can end with a 0-0 score eventually put me off. However, I do regret for not watching this year’s World Cup final as some people said it’s the most thrilling final in the history of this event.
Happy New Year, Lex! I wish you more travels and good health in 2023.
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The connection of our senses to travel is something I feel very deeply. The fun part of that is that it rarely makes sense to me or anyone I might tell. And as you note, that linkage is often asynchronous, with childhood smells and sounds interwoven with current sights and vice versa. In this case, the weirdness of a sporting event I normally would not even watch becoming an inextricable piece of this Malta memory is just the goofy angle I needed to memorialize this trip! (The whole 0-0 score thing seemed boring to me, too, but the WC final was indeed one of the most exciting sporting events I’ve seen!)
As I wrote to James above, the mix of cultures and cuisines was not as evident as I expected, with Malta mostly feeling very Italian and Catholic. Christmas was on full display, huge old European churches abounded, and the food was typical southern European, mostly Italian, fare. Then again, we only had two dinners (huge bummer with that delay), so we may have simply chosen places that showcased one cuisine over others. The language was the one thing that stood out as very different.
Happy New Year and many fun travels to you in 2023 also!
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Wow, Malta is high on our must-visit list. Welcome to the soccer fan club.
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Haha! Those later matches were very exciting, but we’ll see how we do when we watch a bunch of 0-0 ones!
I’m sure you’d love Malta – I actually can’t believe you haven’t been there with your wide-ranging travels. Actually, maybe I can because we have traveled a lot also, but it was only the chance invitation to join Kelly that prompted us to go despite a long-time interest in Malta!
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I’ll come back and linger over the views, Lexie, but it’s so good to have you here again. Travel is all about the memories and random associations for me. Meeting up with companions that you obviously jelled with is a huge bonus. Thank you for this! Wishing you the happiest, healthiest ’23 you can manage…
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Thanks, Jo – wishing you the same! I agree that the companions make the trip and, through them, all those crazy and lasting memories can be formed. It was a very pretty little place to spend a few days!
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Malta looks charming, I was drawn into the narrow streets and soft lighting. I absolutely love the door knockers! Now I want one 🙂 We were in Brazil for the World Cup, a sport and cup that I never watch, but like you I was hooked by their love and enthusiasm of the ‘beautiful game’. My songs in Brazil were of course very related, (Copacobana, Girl from Ipanema, Her name was Rio), but I often have seemingly unrelated music attached to a place. Maggie
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The streets, walls, and lighting were definitely highlights. I got on a door knocker kick one day and I almost couldn’t keep up with the number of unique ones I saw. They did have some for sale, too, so get yourself over there and pick one up! Time will tell if our interest in soccer continues, but even if not, it’s a lovely memory, just like all the other random things, like music, that are forever linked to our trips. Glad to hear you experience these connections also!
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Ha, Lex I knew I had to read your post when it popped up in my email and have waited till we finally got to a house we are renting for a month so that I’d have time to enjoy it! You didn’t disappoint. It’s always so enjoyable to read you.
Love the serendipitous overlay with football and that you are now hooked. Too funny! We had the World Cup overlap with our oldest sons wedding and all the kids were invested and interested! It was great fun.
Malta was a place we regretted overlooking as we flew over it when leaving Tunisia for Sicily ! We looked down and saw the size and the location and weee aware we were missing an interesting spot. So great you got to visit it!
Peta
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Thanks for the compliment, Peta! I’m happy I could give you the glimpse of Malta that you missed on your amazing RTW odyssey last year. The World Cup takes over so many cultures’ attention (my husband’s foreign business literally stops for a month during this event!), and it was fun to feel a part of that for the first time. I am picturing you reading my post in your gorgeous Bali home for the month – I know you are loving being back there. (That’s another place I need to get to as soon as I can!) Happy New Year to you and Ben!
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How great to see a post from you again, Lexi! And Happy NY! First of all, the knockers are awesome. Second, it’s funny you talk about associations and football, becauee I’ll forever associate the World Cup with Crete. I worked there for 5 months in 2006, in a French hotel, and that year the French did very well (silver, perhaps?). But all I remember is working at the poolside bar in the evenings, and all the guests drinking in a very civilised, French way just ONE drink. A small cognac (complaints if there was too much) or a local drink or perhaps a cocktail with the colours of the French flag. The atmosphere was unforgettable! I’ll always love football for that. But… this year the Cup was held in Qatar and the media had reported of such blatant abuse of human rights, that I couldn’t watch it. Anyway, it isn’t quite the same watching from home without my French hotel guests. Some moments are just magical in unpredictable ways. Anyway, a lovely read and Malta looks worthwhile!
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Happy New Year to you, too! I love your World Cup memory; I can just picture those proper French people sipping their little drinks. I was also appalled at the mistreatment of so many migrant workers in Qatar as the event venues were built, and without the excitement of our friends, we might never have switched on the games.
If one can put aside those facts (and it’s hard), it was apparently a really great place to have the World Cup, with all the matches reachable from one city, very unlike the fragmentation that happens in the U.S. or Brazil or other sites where one has to actually fly or drive very long distances between cities and stadiums. Our friends also said it was a warm and welcoming environment where sportsmanship and good feelings reigned among people of all nations. So at least there’s that!
Anyway, thanks for reading and missing me! Malta was a great little destination, just what I needed to dip my toes into the traveling waters once again.
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Reading this is a wonderful start to the morning! I was laughing through much of it, thrilled at your unexpected enjoyment of the World Cup and the great memories of the few days we had together! Malta was a jewel — small and pure, with its own character, historic, and easy to explore. What a perfect place to meet up and enhance the experience with friends, food, wine, beer and football! Love your photo of the Noni desserts, the blue doors with red wreaths and dome at the end of the street. I will remember this trip so fondly and hope for more in the future with you and J! And maybe T&R will join in again, too! xoxo
P.S. I want to hear more about Boy George, Cape Town and toilets in France, LOL!
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I didn’t even mention the dome pursuit! (That pic caught the elusive one we couldn’t get close to without losing it.) So many fun memories, but the football really did stick with me for some reason. It was just so festive and new to us, and I think the smallness of Malta made it easier to not feel overwhelmed by the need to constantly sightsee, allowing for relaxing into a new environment. We could just be there and do normal things and still be soaking in the differentness from home and everyday life. That’s really the way I LOVE to travel – no huge agenda, just a plunking down into a new world for a time.
On our next trip together, I’ll regale you with all my weirdo connections .. that’s some incentive, right? 🙂
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Oh Lexie! It sounds like you had a wonderful – but short – time in Malta. I’m sorry you lost the first night, but you did make the best of everything, as always. Before I read to the end, I was going to comment that your special sentiment and remembrance of Malta will be soccer (“voetbal” in Dutch). Mark watched most games while we were stuck in Cartagena. When the data/WiFi allowed! 🙂
Your photos are stunning, especially the sunset one, and it sure sounds like your days were packed to the brim! Thanks for sharing this amazing trip to the Med!
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You were right about my lasting memory – the biggest one – from Malta! It was such a quick visit to a very small country, so it kind of makes sense that I’d form more bizarre memories than usual, I guess. Glad you guys are sort of back to normal these days … enjoy Colombia and all the upcoming places you will visit!
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I love how your memories of Malta will always be linked to soccer, Lex, and how you often have these strange associations with places. Makes it not only very personal, but memories you will never forget.
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I have to admit I like my strange associations myself. They somehow forge even stronger memories of a place, and they are just fun! Malta gave me much more than a newfound appreciation for soccer, and it was great to be back out in a new and different part of the world again – finally!
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Maybe the trick to watching soccer is to do it with friends in a rowdy atmosphere. My experience is more limited to TV, watching championship games for our local men’s and especially women’s teams (the ladies have won it all three times!) – but found it hard to get too excited. Not enough scoring, I guess.
On the other hand, Malta looks quite interesting. Great pics. I bet it was fun hanging out with Kelly and J as well – talk about a worldly couple.
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The atmosphere 100% helped! It wasn’t particularly rowdy, maybe “spirited,” but it was an intimate environment of real soccer fans, and I got to ask lots of dumb questions about the rules! I think the fact that the games were close, and one an upset, also helped.
Malta was a cool little gem – lots of cozy streets, cute shops, huge walls, lots of water, and centuries of history. It was easy and comfortable, a great way to get back out into the world after a looonnnggg time stuck at home. Oh, and there were Kelly and J, and his awesome brother and sister-in-law, to boot (no soccer pun intended)!
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Thank you so much for alerting me to your door details on my blog. Magnificent!! I had this post saved for later viewing since I’m not reading many blogs these days. I’m happy that you had a great European football-watching experience. I know how that goes. Once you start it’s hard to stop. My sport is basketball but I remember some previous World Cup viewings, for example on Crete. I really love the boats and cats too. I bet you have so many other wonderful photos from Malta where I have never bene.
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“Snow” (from The Snow Melts Somewhere) also has World Cup memories on Crete! Kind of a weird coincidence. You should go to Malta if you want an easy, close trip! Of course, you already live in Italy, which is what Malta mostly felt like to me, so maybe it would be too similar to home to entice you. I did take a lot of pics!
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I saw her post after yours. 🙂 Most excellent.
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Funny coincidence!
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Sounds like you all had a fabulous time, in so many ways. It sounds as if it was really fun. Neither Don nor I have any interesting soccer, um, sorry, football, but I can totally see myself getting caught up in a game as you two did.
I was looking forward to hearing about your Malta sojourn with Kelly and J, and missed it until now because I got so caught up in a completely different life in Oz with family. Back home now and catching up.
Gorgeous photos – enough to entice me to Malta.
Alison
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It was really wonderful to spend time with Kelly and J. I’m glad you were able to settle into life in Australia and not bother with blog-life for a while! Malta was an appealing little place – no need to spend a whole lot of time but worth the short visit for sure.
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Lexie, that sounds like such a wonderful time. I love Malta – we spent a month there when we were living in Amsterdam – and truly look forward to returning one day. Your photos are stunning and really brought back the memories. Here’s to more wandering! ~Terri
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You’ve certainly got some wandering coming up! 🙂 Malta was a fun little escape, I bet it was cool to spend a whole month really getting to know the island; we barely scratched the surface.
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