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There are no guns or robberies in this story, no convertibles, and, I’m sorry to say, no trysts with a young Brad Pitt. We are no Thelma and Louise; we’re just L and L on our own girls’ road trip with plenty of laughs, a whole lot of talking, maybe a little bit of wine, more than a few foodstuffs that rarely pass our lips on a regular basis, and even a few “daring” border crossings.
In pre-pandemic January, my friend L flew from Chicago to Houston to take a four-day road trip with me into the middle of Texas. As a little background, L is one of those people who is interested in everything (that is a good thing), and the mere mention of a place or activity, no matter where it was heard or read, can send her off on a quest. (I still thank our lucky stars for her voracious guidebook reading, or we would have never screeched to a halt a few decades ago to herd our six kids into the best sheep farm ever in New Zealand!)
With that in mind, you must know that this trip largely came about because of an article L saw on a plane in American Way magazine, in which the tiny city of Del Rio, Texas, was featured. She was convinced by the flattering multi-page spread that Del Rio had to be the best kept travel secret ever, “a peach of a town” she kept calling it, and she wanted to make it the centerpiece of our trip.
I did some research of my own and quickly determined that the small town on the Mexican border sounded like a good place to drop in. For a day. Max. It did have some appealing draws – new art galleries and craft beer bars in the small downtown, a curious mix of vegetation and wildlife based on its location, and nearby, incredible prehistoric cave drawings and an International Dark Sky Sanctuary. A nice bonus would be a walk over the bridge linking Del Rio and Ciudad Acuña, Mexico, if we got our way. (Lots of people tried to dissuade us from getting our way. Before we left, we got the usual friends-and-family lectures on U.S./Mexico border towns, and even the front desk employees at our hotel looked at us in dismay when we asked how we could make the crossing. But I’m getting ahead of myself.)
We left Houston on a weekday morning, hoping to get to San Antonio for lunch and Del Rio for dinner. We planned to spend the evening and the next day in that peach of a town, and then move on to Fredericksburg, Enchanted Rock, Dripping Springs, Luckenback, and every farm-to-market road we could find on the way back home. While many of those places deserve to be, and have previously been, chronicled here, the rest of today’s story is all about Del Rio and its Mexican sister city, Acuña.
Our first glimpse of the magazine-lauded qualities of Del Rio turned out to be the bright yellow Julio’s tortilla chip factory and restaurant, right on our route into town. We resisted a stop, but we did succumb to a supermarket purchase of a jumbo-sized bag of the famous chips to power our ride the next day. (As a side note, there were also Buc-ee’s sea salt caramels, home-made chocolate chip cookies from another hotel, and a few more wonderfully unhealthy treats consumed along the way.)
We “explored” downtown Del Rio that evening; almost everything was closed, but we did find a great little craft brewpub with good beer, some comfort food, and most important, a couple of young girls who worked there who assured us that a walk into Acuña the next day would be safe and fun.
Wednesday dawned wet and dreary, with a heavy mass of swollen clouds nearly touching the ground, so we had to ditch our bird sanctuary hiking plans and replace them with a nature museum and a drive across the Lake Amistad dam – half in the U.S. and half in Mexico – in case we got rained out (or chickened out) of the walk across the border later.
Having accidentally driven into Mexico from El Paso a number of years ago, and then getting stuck there for hours trying to get back into the U.S. with a rental car and a minor daughter with no ID, I was a little more skittish than necessary about driving past the sign that warned “LAST CHANCE TO TURN AROUND BEFORE ENTERING MEXICO.”
So we made mistake #1. We parked outside that gate and walked in. It appeared that only vehicles could go to the right, so we went left … apparently into an official area where entry was forbidden. We walked for about two minutes before we were approached by the border police and pointed right back out to our car.
Still confused but slightly emboldened by the instructions he gave us, we got in the car, crossed our fingers, and went through the official lane to cross the bridge. A quarter of the way across the bridge/dam, we saw a parking area on the side and got out to see what we could see. Almost before we saw anything, shots rang out, a peppery rat-a-tat-tat that sent us jumping back into the car and hightailing it down the ramp into the U.S entry checkpoint, our minds full of violent scenarios.
The immigration officer was semi-amused. “Those were shots to ward off the turkey buzzards,” she smiled, barely. “Did you at least get to the commemorative plaque in the middle?”
“Umm, no,” we replied sheepishly. “If we actually enter Mexico, will we be able to get back in here easily?”
“It’s hardly a border; you’ll be in the middle of the bridge. You can park and then turn around. I’ll be here,” she added. I could sense her trying hard not to roll her eyes.
Since there were no other travelers and no lines, we finally went to stand with one foot in each country, straddling the Rio Grande, sort of, and contemplating the forbidding terrain on either side of the river. Re-entry was quick and easy, as promised, and we were on our way back to Del Rio.
We couldn’t really say that was going to Mexico, could we? Googlemaps and some other online sleuthing led us next to a bleak parking lot on the U.S. side of the Del Río-Ciudad Acuña International Bridge. We waded through giant mud puddles, slogged for a mile down the berm of a 4-lane highway, crossed the bridge, and finally reached an impressively large and modern Port of Entry complex. We went through customs with about two other visitors on foot, wound through a series of corridors, and landed in Acuña just before noon.
The welcome sign suggested it was party time, but unfortunately, the town was a bit less colorful, with only a few little bodegas and kitschy shops open for business. (To be fair, the weather was truly dismal.) We strolled up and down the main drag, Miguel Hidalgo, and finally lucked into the one spot we’d read about for lunch: La Fama, a more modern bar/restaurant with a homey atmosphere and good food and beer.
In the past, Acuña apparently had quite a late-night scene; a string of clubs and bars drew crowds of students and others, and during the day, citizens of both towns crossed the border for work and school. Even though much of the after-dark revelry ramped down with the rise of warring cartels, the cities avoided much of the drug-fueled violence of other border towns, and today, as in many places along the Rio Grande, Ciudad Acuña and Del Rio still have a symbiotic and easy relationship.
Hundreds of workers continue to go over the border and back each day for work, children are driven to private schools on the other side, and the economy is inseparably integrated. The mayors of the two towns are friendly, cooperating daily on big things, like international trade and infrastructure projects, as well as smaller details like easy border crossings for their residents. It all works just fine, as far as we could discern. No big walls, no big deal, just the way it should be.
By mid-afternoon, we had crossed back into the U.S. for the third time (the immigration officer asked us why we had two stamps in the last four hours!) and were on our way north into the better-known Hill Country. Although the next three days had many highlights of their own, I had to admit the unlikely destination L had discovered in her in-flight reading ended up being the part of the road trip that stuck with us longest. There’s a whole other world out there, and a lot of it is just a short road trip away from home!
OMG, I am laughing soooo hard at this!! Love that you have so many Mexico stamps in your passport in one day!! I do miss border towns like crazy. They were some of the best girls trips when I lived in Texas. I wonder if the border patrol woman went home and told her family about you both. LOL. And I do LOVE the story of you and K in Mexico. LOL
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I’m sure she thought we were idiots! Haha. I really was somewhat traumatized by K’s and my inadvertent arrival in Cuidad Juarez all those years ago, so I’m sure that played a part in my foolishness! I loved my 4 days with L right before we all locked down, though!
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She sounds like the perfect travel buddy!!!
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Yep. And you would be, too! 🙂
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I’m already making a list for us 😉
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Very interesting. I enjoying going along but would have preferred for it to be with my body also.
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Thanks! I’m lucky to live so close to places that are very different from my own city. I guess we all are in some way; the U.S. is so diverse geographically and philosophically, and that’s why I do love a good road trip!
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Our daughter lives in Victoria and I have enjoyed visiting Texas because it is so different.
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Great story and great girls trip! I love that the border guard gave you instructions!!
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That border guard was very nice and very patient with us goofballs! And you’re right that it was a great trip with my good friend and no husbands – lots of time to gab and catch up on all sorts of things.
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Good to have you storytelling again, Lexie. 🙂 🙂 I guess we’re all looking to explore the world on our doorstep now. Sadly I don’t think we have anywhere as colourful as Mexico on hand 🙂
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Oh, thanks, Jo – only took me 8 months to get around to memorializing this trip! I realized that safekeeping these travel stories, whether they interest anyone else or not(!), was the whole point of starting my blog. I might argue that you LIVE somewhere that is as colorful as Mexico!
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We stopped off in Del Rio for a night this summer, Lexi, but didn’t go across the Border. We did find a historic wine vineyard though and bought some good Texas wine to take to Peggy’s brother. Highway 90 from Van Horn to San Antonio was one of our back roads. Or at least it was as far as Del Rio. It became a little busy after that. One of our fun stops along the way was Judge Roy Beam’s place in Langtry.
I alleged at your adventure! Thanks for the fun! –Curt
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That’s so cool, Curt! My husband and I had driven through Del Rio before (we took back roads the whole way from Marfa to Fredericksburg one other time), but I never really thought to stop (even though J constantly reminds me that some famous baseball pitcher was born there … you see I have already forgotten who!). Next time, I’ll check out the vineyard and Langtry!
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I am afraid my knowledge of baseball pitchers is right up with yours, Lexi, but Texas does love its sports! 🙂 I was trying to remember when I drove through Fredericksburg. It must have been on one our visits to see Peggy’s brother in Georgetown. –Curt
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Lovely to see you here Lexie. Your border town adventure makes a great story! It feels so “exotic” and exciting versus the border not far from my house. Your conversation with the immigration officer is hysterical. Shooting at turkey vultures, really??? I would have crapped myself hearing those shots (but I also would have got a huge kick out of this road trip) .
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Thank you, and HA – yes, your border is not quite as exotic or fraught!
We got a kick out of our foolishness after the fact, but the shots did send us scrambling! Your comment sent me looking up bird names, which I know was not your point … growing up, we thought vultures and buzzards were the same bird. Then we learned that turkey vultures were what we called buzzards. The immigration lady seemed to combine those and call the poor border birds “turkey buzzards,” which may be redundant. Anyway, I did some fun research, but I won’t bore you with the confusing summary of vultures, buzzards, and hawks! It’s enough to know that some big birds were all that got shot at the border that day!
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Too funny…now you’ve got me looking up the terms. So confusing…I see there’s even a buzzard hawk, so maybe turkey buzzard is legit. I’ve always liked the word buzzard…it has attitude.
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Great to see a new post from you, Lexie. Sounds and looks like a fabulous road trip, even with the gloomy weather. That must be the most laid back border crossing ever.
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Thanks! I decided to follow through with my original rationale for starting the blog and at least record this fun trip for my own enjoyment in the future, whether or not it was of great interest to anyone else! 🙂
Both crossings were indeed very laid back, especially compared to what I remember from the El Paso/Juarez bridge crossing years ago. THAT was a stressful experience!
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Great to see you on here again Lexi! Love reading your stories, and this was a a good one!
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Thanks, Anna! I had to get back in the saddle somehow, so this very little story would have to do!
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What an amazing outing. I’m jealous.
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It was fun, Peggy! I love a friend trip every so often; it almost doesn’t even matter where we go!
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Something to laugh at, now, but I bet it wasn’t funny at all when hearing the shots. You’ve had a great girls trip though, just in time before the lockdown!
Thanks for the story,
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Yes, we did squeeze this in just in the nick of time! I wish I had a film of us hearing the shots and bolting, only to quickly laugh at our silliness.
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Sometimes inflight magazines can give us information on lesser known places which, upon our visits, turn out to be as interesting as described in the articles, or even better. It looks like you and your friend made the right decision to go to Del Rio, and those multiple border crossings sound fun, the shots and everything.
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It’s true – I also have found some great little travel ideas in those magazines. But really, this city is a great day trip or maybe an overnight – the article made it sound like we could spend days and days there … maybe only in better weather and with a couple of specific interests in what was nearby! We are still glad we went; it was a fun adventure, and I do always enjoy seeing things that are off the beaten track.
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What a great story Lexie. What an intriguing exploration of the most unlikely places. Those shots must have been, um, stimulating! I love that there is easy friendly relations between the towns – a bit of realness amidst the headline border wall madness. Lovely to hear from you again!
Alison
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Beyond the goofy expectations and reactions we had to some of the border crossing details, the biggest takeaway for me was exactly the “easy, friendly” vibe between the towns and, as you note, the “realness” as opposed to the posturing that takes place in our news sources on both ends of the political spectrum. Of course, there are some truly awful things happening on our border, and I am ashamed of them, but what I have seen here and in a number of other smaller border towns is a shrug about who goes over and back. What is often not portrayed is not just that many people need to come over for work (and how many employers on this side need them to come), but that they WANT to go back to their own homes! And they do so daily with no fusses on either side.
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It is so very heartening to hear this. xo
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Looking baaaaack, I am LOL at the memory of my excitement reading the article on Del Rio and calling you and saying, “I’ve got a road trip, girlfriend!” It was with the same wide eyed youthful naiveness and awe that a young girl would have going to Cinderella’s castle. AND, nah nah na nah nah we’re going to go to Mexico for lunch! If we EVER needed a beer, this was it! The photo of the mexican tortillas with the honey butter was mouth watering all over again.
You forgot to mention because you are too humble, that your spanish speaking talents gave us cred with the border guards, which were very formidable looking on the outside, especially when we needed to pay 55 cents or was it pesos, to get back over in the US? There is no doubt that we are on some surveillance camera and provided comic entertainment to anyone who was watching it. I would like to say that we looked like cool, calm and glamourous Bond accomplices, but in reality we looked like characters out of a ……….. Well, no, no further description. I will leave you with the vision that I originally had when conjuring up and planning our trip to the border– an adventure for the best of friends. Thanks Lex, for the memories!
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The other L weighs in! Talking about LOLing – your mention of any surveillance video of the two of us made me cackle! It was such a great getaway, and the impetus you gave me for the trip was awesome. Can’t wait to see what you come up with for this winter!
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Loved reading this with all its optimism about an unknown destination. This is the essence of travel! Venturing out, knowing it could be a hit or a miss but still checking it out, regardless. What an adventure with the shots fired and multiple border crossings, LOL! Most of all, I love that you speak the truth (of course) from the ground — there is no wall or battle or big huge conflict at this border — just two sides cooperating and functioning like neighbors should. If more people would travel, more people would know this is possible and happening and real and true. Thank you, Lex!
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Thanks, Kelly! I’m impressed that you are even reading blogs after your own epic road trip! I love your thought that we travelers often venture out without knowing whether our destination will be a hit or a bust. I might add that many of us who are serious about exploring probably turn even the potential misses into hits in at least some small way!
As for the border and its truths … it’s so complicated, and some of it IS a total sh–show, but my own travels and the feedback from some people who live right there has shown me that much of it is pretty mundane and drama-free, which is great.
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Lovely to find a story from you Lexie. I chuckled so much. Well maybe not when the shots are ringing out. How were you to know that was for the birds? I would far rather explore lesser known areas than the tourist hotspots. Good for your friend to have learned about it, as well as the sheep farm way back when. Here’s hoping we can all do more exploring, close to home and farther away.
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Thanks, Sue! We were such goofballs that day, but we sure had fun! And oh boy, that sheep farm in NZ is one of the best family vacation memories we have, and all because L was always looking for the next great thing to do. I’m right with you on hoping for more exploring … near or far!
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Here you are! Where have you been? Other than mexico…. 😛 being on an island it’s not so easy to step over a border. plus they dont seem to have any intention of letting us out for who knows how long! lol
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Haha, Andy – I’ve been driving around the U.S. like a crazy person during this whole Covid thing. I think I’m at about 11,000 miles right now! Although we do have more freedom to move around than you do there (and more cases as a result, I am sure!), we have been super careful personally – not flying, not eating out in restaurants, packing our own food, wearing masks, etc. I’ve been back and forth many times to one son’s house and also was able to see my parents, our daughter, and our other son once. We live in the middle of the country and they all live way west and east, so I’ve been very busy! I haven’t really had exciting travel stories to tell, though, and have let the poor blog languish all this time. Glad to hear you kinda missed me! 🙂
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lol sure I missed you! And now you must have so many exciting stories to tell!
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Fascinating. Your photos are most telling already and the words complete the picture. Plus there were shots!! On the border! Damn! But it sounds like the time was wonderfully had. Also, your friend sound familiar. That’s the way to go about it, I say. 🙂 All well too you!
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Thanks, Manja! It was such a fun four days. L has been my friend since our children were infants and toddlers, and leaving the Chicago area was sad mostly because of our move away from close friends like her. Luckily, we’ve been able to see each other a few times a year on little jaunts like this one!
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What an adventure! Sounds like great fun and memories that will last forever.
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It’s always fun to see exactly what memories stick from various trips and places. In this case, it turns out to have little to do with the actual destination and more to do with the silliness of our border crossing attempts!
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Border towns can and often are confusing. I think some of it has to do with our mental state of not wanting to do something illegal or inappropriate. Or, getting stuck on the other side inadvertently. Another adventure – I’m glad you managed to get a quick trip in with a good friend before all hell broke loose. Mark and I are hoping for a Mexican visit this winter. We will see what happens…
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You’re right about borders! I am always so worried I’ll make some dumb mistake (because I have!) and either get stuck or in trouble. I bet you’ll be able to go to Mexico if you choose to this winter. We’ve heard that they are doing better with the virus these days … but just like here in the U.S., you have to pick your spots! Are you on the road again yet?
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Yep. We left MA about two weeks ago. I hope to finally write and post a blog today. I’ve been so busy with life on the road during the day and work at night and during the weekends. Hard to make progress on my book, let alone stay on top of emails, other people’s blogs, social media, my own blog… 😦 I need 48 hours in a day. Just for me!
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I can relate to the need for 48 hours a day! Glad you are on the move again!
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it’s 06:48 AM and I have a hankering for a beer and a bowl of Caldo de Res in a restaurant where they have cumbia on. Thanks Lexi!
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I’ll join you for the beer and cumbia, but you can have all that soup! Especially at 6:48 am. Glad I could mentally transport you across the border, though!
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Lexie, from what I hear out of DC, I would have thought that it would take a crane to be lifted over a 50 foot wall to get into or out of Mexico. Oh, guess the fabled wall doesn’t actually cover the entire border 🙂 You know, no matter what border I cross, I’m always glad to get across without incident. It’s nice that you had a friendly welcome. And good for your intrepid spirit and getting out there. Very funny tale. ~James
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Haha – I love the opening image in your comment! I know you know that what the government and media foist upon us is often not quite reality, but I do wish our terribly polarized nation could just see for themselves what goes on in places that they think are hugely problematic. As I said in another comment, there ARE some things happening on our border that are very troubling, but there is also plenty of just plain living in harmony.
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This reminds me of when we stayed in Puerto Iguazu (Argentina) and heard what sounded like gunshots in the middle of the night. It kept going and echoed even more. We pulled our blankets to our ears, thinking, ”Gunshots?” The next day, a cab driver told us they were fireworks.
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Our imaginations can be dangerous things! 🙂
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Everyone should have a friend like that to embark on crazy adventures with. Such a fun read, Lex. And prove that adventure and fun can be found close to home no matter where one lives.
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I really am lucky to have such a friend! For decades now, we have planned trips both small and large, and both have enriched my life. She is the part of my many years in the Chicago area that I miss the most, but we are trying to do the best job we can to stay connected from a thousand miles apart!
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I adore you writing style and felt that spending time here with you on an adventure was far superior to working late again this evening. Thanks for taking me out of the office and back onto the open road. I smiled all the way (and shared a bit of horror at the thought of an earlier time when you were stranded in Mexico with K). I hope we have a road trip together someday in our future (or another sail or a train trip to China could be fun). In the meantime, I will live vicariously through your four wheel wanderings.
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Glad this below-average post could still whisk you away from your work for a short while! I’m sure we have SOME kind of adventure awaiting us, but who knows when or where or what kind? Maybe that’s part of the fun – figuring it out! I also hope you guys can get out yourselves for a few shorter road trips in AZ this winter.
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Your ‘below average’ posts are equivalent to my ‘best ever’ :-). I aspire to be you. Looking forward to adventuring together. I was so encouraged by your road trip story that Fabio and I are now considering going to Monument Valley for the weekend #needinspiration
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I am always amazed by your adventures, Lex, and this one was no exception. Not too far from home for you yet it sounded like such a fun one and a good story to tell 😀 Have to agree your friend L is curious about anything, and she sounds like the kind who will make any trip turn out good. Del Rio sounded like a sleepy but charming town, a build up to the border crossing. I would also have jumped had I heard those shots at the border…I mean, you can never be to careful when you are traveling in an unfamiliar place.
I guess when you crossed the border and physically set food in Mexico, you are there 😀 It is great that crossing the border is so easy when you got the right documents and have good intentions both ways. Two stamps over four hours sounds like quite a bit…and maybe one day you will be back for more.
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Lucky for me, I have been to Mexico at least 20 twenty times over the years, so I don’t have a great need to see Del Rio again. It was very fun, and I’m so glad I went, but I’m sure my next trip(s) will be to other regions. The border towns have a different vibe that can’t be felt elsewhere, though, so I’m gad I experienced one more of those city-pairs!
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Lex it’s definitely good to read you again! We chuckled over your girls trip but Ben wanted a visual of said girls 🙂 on their adventure beyond the shoes straddling the border. The best line in your post “no big wall, no big deal, just the way it should be.” Yes!
Reality on the ground especially in border areas is typically more one of continuity than drastic change . Perhaps the only case we have seen of distinct differences was on the border between Dominican Republic (green) and Haiti… bleak.
Enjoyed your adventures and hope you Olán another road trip with more time and days on the Mexican side. I do believe you “owe” us a visit!!! 🙂
Peta & Ben
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I do “owe” you a visit, and it is a debt I can’t wait to repay! J and I are dying to see Oaxaca – any part of Oaxaca – so please stay put for a little while! As for a photo of the two intrepid border-crossing chicks, we didn’t get any good ones … it was so rainy and windy and our goofy bridge shots are not the most attractive looks! Maybe next time! 🙂
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Lex, I loved everything about this post and the road trip in general. L’s energy and enthusiasm from the start, your openness to exploring a border town like Del Rio in spite of the (expected) lectures from friends and family, and yes, even the initial scare at Lake Amistad dam! You two clearly had a whale of a time even if the weather gods didn’t cooperate.
And another thing this reminded me of – just a few days ago I went on a spontaneous supermarket run to pick up a bag of tortillas and a handful of fresh ingredients to make pico de gallo (for the next morning’s breakfast hot dogs with chili mayo – it was a resounding success). I’m doubtful that any of the Mexican restaurants here in Jakarta are truly authentic, but there is, strangely enough, a fabulous little Honduran-owned restaurant out in the suburbs.
The last line about discovering a whole new world on a road trip close to home also sums up my own recent experiences. Back in early October, Bama and I did the six-hour drive from Jakarta to revisit his hometown of Semarang for a much-needed break; we ended up going back just a few weeks later for a five-day weekend (Bama’s parents were thrilled, as you can imagine!), and on both occasions we came across all these amazing places and things we’d never known about the city. I can’t say much more because I managed to wrangle a story out of it for work, but we are definitely planning to return there for Christmas!
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Thanks, James, and sorry for the delay in responding. It really was a great little escape and looking back, it feels like such a fun, innocent time, with no worries about hotels and bars and lurking viruses … just BB guns, rain, and routine border crossings, all of which seem like very tame concerns now that we are all stuck at home. Have fun on your next trip to Semarang!
P.S. I love imagining your enjoyment of pico de gallo and tortillas in Jakarta! If I ever get over there and can meet you guys, I’ll have to bring a package of Mexican goodies (and some Texas BBQ sauce or spices, too!).
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No worries, Lex – I should have commented on this post long ago! Bama and I leave for Semarang in less than two weeks’ time… the plan is to go a couple of days before the highways get jammed with holiday traffic, so we’ll be working out of his parents’ place in the lead-up to Christmas. We’re both looking forward to Auntie Dhani’s fabulous home cooking and playtime with the friendly house cats.
P.S. I do love the sound of Texas BBQ sauce and Mexican goodies – thanks for offering to lug those treasures halfway around the world!
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How fun! I always love a trip to Mexico it being one of my favorite destinations, so I loved hearing about Acuña. Border towns, I find, on the surface don’t seem like much until you dig a little deeper. Take care.
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It definitely deserved a little more time, but it was such a grim day weather-wise that we didn’t give it a fair shake. I love some of the other border towns along the Texas border, especially farther west. Now that we live here, I’m sure we will have other chances!
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What an adventure. Your friend sounds awesome. All this because of an in-flight magazine. Reading about your trip brought me joy and made me miss traveling so much more. Happy 2021!
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I’m so glad you homed in on the flight magazine origins of this trip! To me, that was the most fun part – that my old friend from far away got this crazy idea on a plane and that we actually executed it. And yes, my friend is awesome, and I’ve now known her for over a quarter of a century – another crazy notion – and we are always looking for out-of-the-ordinary things to do. I think we are getting close to being able to do these kinds of trips again soon; with the vaccine coming and better knowledge of how Covid spreads, I think road trips can be one of the earliest travel options to come back to us. (Well, at least with family members, maybe not faraway friends yet!) Happy New Year to you, too!
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Ahhh I love your energy. I had to laugh at you at the border with your young daughter without ID. I could totally see myself in this kind of situaiton !! Reading you felt so refreshing after a year locked in Vietnam 🙂 Cheers to a healthy new year and new travels X
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Thank you! So nice to see you back here on occasion. I know you have a lot going on these days, so thanks for making time for my poor little blog that has not gotten much attention lately. This trip was over a whole year ago now (although I wrote the post much later), and I can’t wait to get back out into the world again. Hope to see YOU somewhere in that wide world, too – I’ll be eager to hear where that might be!
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I always like to read you, it was such an envigorating one after 6h de homeschooling! Can’t wait for the day I ll be telling you where we ll be in July ..So weird not to have any idea yet. My friends and fam are taking for granted that we are “coming back home”, but where is home after over 20 years of expatriation ?.. Europe would be a wise option as we are entitled to work but it seems so far and cold from Hanoi 😉
Living in Asia is like being in a bubble, especially those days. But on another hand, being able to wander in a real forest and spending days without air cleaners and antipollution masks sounds exciting too ..
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What a fun escapade Lexie! And your excellent story telling skills had me reliving every moment with you. I laughed through the entire post and kept thinking how badly I need a spontaneous friend like L. The standout is the sentence “no big wall, no big deal, just the way it should be.”…wish more border towns could be the same. Look forward to reading more of your Texas adventures.
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Wonderful to hear from you, Madhu! I really should get myself motivated to write more about my new(ish) home state; to some people in the U.S., it’s almost like a foreign country! This trip was now over a year ago, and how I miss my adventuresome friend and our ability to simply hop in a car and set forth. I’m so hopeful that we are on the verge of being able to move around again, maybe not overseas right away, but at least away from our homes. (I must say I do get to cheat a bit as we rented a small apartment several states away where our one and only baby granddaughter is, so I am actually sort of on vacation as I write!). Hope all is good or at least steady with you after your tough times of late.
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You are a terrific storyteller, Lex. Loved your photos and your chutzpah! Very fun.
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Thank you, Jane – I need to muster up the energy for a new story soon!
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